Thursday, April 12, 2007

Life Lessons to Ponder

Lessons In Life To Think About...


As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that was not ever supposed to let us down probably will. Maybe we become too confident in that one person and the fact that this person is the one that we rely on for everything, including guarding our feelings...maybe that is why it is so sad when they do let us down...becuase that bond of trust that we so strongly had has been slightly altered...
You will have your heart broken probably more than one time and it is harder every single time...no matter what we think or what we are told, a broken heart is not easier the more times it is broken...I think it is harder each time. Maybe this is because we *think* that we learn from previous heart breaks and mistakes so that it never happens again, only to find out that it does and there was nothing we could do about it.
You will break hearts too, so remember how it felt when your heart was broken...go easy. No matter what one may say, all hearts and feelings are fragile. I think many times karma will come back and bite, sometimes even harder than you bit in the first place..so be careful.
You will fight with your best friend.
You will blame a new love for things that an old one did. This is so hard *not* to do when you have walls up that you are trying to let down...and trust that you are trying to gain or regain in a person...you know familiar territory and you automatically will relate that familiar territory to the territory of an old love and what he or she did to you...just be careful NOT to jump to conclusions...
You will cry because time is passing too fast. It is inevitable that no matter what you are doing there is always another stage in life *ahead* of you that you so desperately want to get to...not stopping to take the time and enjoy the time that you are currently living in and the stages that you are living through...Don't wish your life away.
You will eventuallly lose someone that you love. Death is inevitable and it will eventually hit home with each one of us...taking someone that we so desperately love...and there will always be that one thing you should have said or that one thing you should have done for that person or with that person...and it is too late because he or she has been taken from us...Live each day as if it is your last...don't let things go unsaid or undone.
So, take too many pictures, laugh too much and love like you have never been hurt because every 60 seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you will never get back.
Don't be afraid that your life will end-
Be afraid that it will never begin!

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